Filters and Dressing Like a Ho in Business

Yeah, that's right...I just said that. Ladies, if you want people to take you seriously, you have got to show yourself some self-respect first. How you treat yourself and show yourself to the world will directly dictate how others treat you.

Now, I don't want to hear the BS of, "I can wear whatever I want and you still have to treat me with respect" all while you are wearing a shirt where your boobs are popped out and you are making a duck face while filtering the picture so you look flawless while taking a selfie from above so everyone can "see it all"...come on. Don't fool yourself or be self-delusional. Whether we like it or not, how others treat us has a direct correlation with what we put out there. That is how the world is.

Are you the woman who's Facebook is 1000 selfies that are all provocative? Or the one who posts constantly about how lonely you are or how you, "can't find a good man"...or are you constantly taking videos of yourself in super-revealing clothing and posting them for "work"? Do you send naked pictures of yourself freely to dudes and want the same in return? Come on ladies!! As a whole, we need to stop doing this crap. If you want someone to treat you with respect, then you have to command that respect!

It baffles me, especially on the real estate agent side, how many women Realtors and people in title etc. act and dress like total Ho's. Zero respect for themselves and also, it shows zero respect for the wives of the clients that they help. What happened with being professional? Are we worried that if we had to rely on our brains that we would not succeed?

Now, I don't want you to think that I am judging. I am not. I have been there and done that...until I realized what it brings. People can do whatever they want to...but learn the consequence. It is a self-respect thing and us women have become so engrossed in using our "sex" to sell and then getting mad when people treat us like crap.

Don't like the way a guy talks to you or treats you? Say something.

Want to be taken seriously? Have something to be serious about.

Want to be treated with more respect for your brain vs. how you look? Respect yourself first. Be good at what you do.

Do you want people to recognize you when they see you in person? Stop using so many damn filters!



Perfect Example!! I googled, "Filtered selfie with duck face" and this is one that came up. I don't know about you, but this does not make me think, "Oh, this lady must be a good Loan Officer"...



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